Monday, December 15, 2008

the perfect man?


Perfect man? by lindsylu

so these are some qualities of my perfect man
(in no particular order)

funny - i need someone who can make me laugh. honestly, i am really easy when it comes to laughing, i love to laugh! so if a guy can't make me laugh that must mean that he is a total dud!
good job - its important to have a good job that is stable and allows you (and myself) to live comfortably. i don't want to struggle which is why i am going to school and plan on being successful, but i don't want to be the only carrying the weight!
well rounded - be likable!
supportive - i need someone to support me in my decisions and goals.
healthy - i don't want someone who is going to die on me anytime soon!
non smoker - gross. just gross! i don't want to be kidding an ash tray nor do i want my kids growing up thinking it is okay for them to smoke.
available - (emotionally & physically) i don't want huge emotional walls that i have to break down and i don't want someone who is too busy for me. there must be a balance
romantic - yes, yes, i am a hopeless romantic. but a random flower for no reason other than you care or a sweet little note is all i need to know one cares!
well educated - necessary for good conversations
spontaneous - don't be boring!
well dressed - i like them presentable
love for travel - i love to travel, so its important in a partner.
smells good - or i guess, just don't smell bad :)
sports lover - another common interest
wine lover – but not too much
professional - presentable
tall - what can i say, i like the tall ones

i know this list is very demanding (i also know that there are some things i left out) but that is why i said this would be the perfect man. some things are negotiable. or changeable :)

what are your ideas of the perfect man?

she said what she wants is a man to be faithful
a true heart somebody willing and able
to stay by her side through thick and thin
a tender touch every now and then

she’s not hung up on fairy tales
or some dream at the bottom of a wishing well
fancy cars or diamond rings
what she wants most are the little things

4 comments:

Andrea said...

I recognize the lyrics to that song but can't remember who sings it....

I'm not sure if the "perfect man" is out there, but he would definetly be someone who made you happy and cherish every single day together. Stay happy and be you..the rest will fall into place

DietCokeStraightUp said...

I love your list of the perfect man! I think he is out there, but he is different for everyone. So cute!

Melinda said...

great list!!

Anonymous said...

Do you think that by forming a list that you will be disappointed for longer than need be? Or on the contrary, do you think that it will be worth it in the end?