men DO NOT change - especially if they don't want to

"even if you are on the right track, you'll get run over if you just sit there"

he doesn't want to change. this all became so clear last night, so clear it is making me sick to my stomach. he doesn't want to change!!! it became apparent while listening to him talk lat night about all the destructive things he has been doing. all these things that make him who he says he doesn't want to be. these decisions are not positive, they are not restoring his faith....

as long as he keeps this up he is not going to change, as long as he doesn't change and become who he wants to be he will not be with me! we will not have a normal relationship, we will keep playing this game. i don't want that, i am tired. he isn't changing because he doesn't want to change!! if he doesn't want to change than why am i WASTING my time???